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Sex and the Brain — Office Hours with Tabu


In this episode, Dr. Kelly discusses the connection between the brain and sex, the role of hormones in desire and arousal, and tips for increasing desire and overcoming mental blocks.

She also addresses common concerns such as painful intercourse, bladder issues, and changes in sexual sensation after surgery. Dr. Casperson emphasizes the importance of communication, seeking professional help when needed, and understanding that everyone’s sexual journey is unique.

In this conversation, Dr. Kelly discusses various topics related to sexual health. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing sex and the role of dopamine in our desire for pleasure.

She addresses challenges with painful sex and low libido, providing recommendations for overcoming these issues. Dr. Casperson also highlights the need to expand the definition of sex beyond penetration and explores ways to achieve orgasm and pleasure. Additionally, she discusses the impact of diet on sexual health and provides guidance on finding a reputable sex therapist.


  • The Connection Between Sex and the Brain
  • The Role of Hormones in Desire and Arousal
  • Tips for Increasing Desire and Overcoming Mental Blocks
  • Using Erotica and Visuals to Spark Imagination
  • Navigating Sexual Frequency and Expectations
  • Managing ADHD and Staying Present During Sex
  • Using Vibrators and Addressing Painful Intercourse
  • Improving Communication and Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships
  • Understanding Burning Sensations After Ejaculation
  • Addressing Bladder Issues and Prolapse
  • Using Vaginal Estrogen for Dryness and Atrophy
  • Managing Libido and Pleasure with Various Factors
  • Addressing Changes in Sexual Sensation After Hysterectomy
  • Exploring the Effectiveness of Libido-Boosting Products
  • The Importance of Prioritizing Sex
  • Challenges with Painful Sex and Low Libido
  • Recommendations for Overcoming Challenges
  • Expanding the Definition of Sex
  • Achieving Orgasm and Pleasure
  • The Impact of Diet on Sexual Health
  • Finding a Reputable Sex Therapist
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Kelly Casperson, MD | Board Certified Urologist · Sexuality & Hormones Expert and Advocate


Kelly Casperson, MD

She’s the sister, urologist, sex expert and friend you never knew you needed….until now.

Dr. Kelly Casperson is a board certified urologist. That makes her an expert of the pelvis. And her mission is to empower women to live their best love lives. Because let’s be honest. None of us were taught right. Combining the power of mind, body and relationships, Dr. Kelly joyously breaks down the societal barriers that are keeping us from awakening into our best intimate experience.

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Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term bond, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, explore, and normalize our lives. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.

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