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Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want From Sex and How To Get It

ABOUT THE EPISODE

Joining me for the second time on the podcast is world renowned sex therapist, Dr. Marty Klein – author and sex therapist to Silicon Valley. Today we are discussing his amazing book Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want From Sex and How To Get It. This book is 10 years old and still completely relevant. And he is still being interviewed about it!

If you want our first episode together check out Episode 169 – where we discuss his book His Porn Her Pain.

HERE’S WHAT WE DISCUSS

  • What is sexual intelligence and why did it need to be written about?
  • “For a lot of people, sex is an opportunity to fail” – Dr. Marty Klein
  • How do you navigate when one partner wants something and the other doesn’t – oral during a period, PIV sex, kink?
  • What is your opinion about the “low desire” epidemic and the meds for low desire.
  • “Most people leave sex for when they are too tired to do anything else” – Dr. Marty Klein
  • “In a world that is filled with ice cream and Netflix….why would anyone want sex?” – Dr. Marty Klein
  • You say in the book PIV has symbolic meaning for hetero people – can you talk about why this limits us?
  • What to do when sex is boring?
  • What to do with a partner who won’t communicate about sex? Stonewalling?
  • Why Dr. Klein doesn’t like the term erectile dysfunction
  • I’m not attracted to my partner any more – they gained weight or are getting older – any help?
  • Tips for desire discrepancy. Communication and more touch.

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MORE ABOUT DR MARTY KLEIN

Dr. Klein’s website

Dr. Klein’s book: His Porn, Her Pain

Dr. Klein’s book: Sexual Intelligence

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Dr. Kelly Casperson is a board certified urologist. That makes her an expert of the pelvis. And her mission is to empower women to live their best love lives. Because let’s be honest. None of us were taught right. Combining the power of mind, body and relationships, Dr. Kelly joyously breaks down the societal barriers that are keeping us from awakening into our best intimate experience.

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Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term bond, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, explore, and normalize our lives. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.

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